- Be willing to share. If you are generous to people, they will also be generous to you
- Be optimistic . Optimism is always the strongest weapon against failure and bad luck
- Be passionate. Passion and interest give us endless strength to pursue everything that is worth our time and effort.
- Learn to make plans. A good plan gives us a big picture. We can always know where we are and never get lost.
- The ability to carry out your plan. No great success can be achieved without the strong ability to carry out your plan. The ability should be possessed by every single member in the team.
Dealing with others is an art.if you are a business man or marketing employee must know how to deal with others effectively.A marketing executive must deal with customers about his product for sales or demos.A business man meets his clients and explain his strategies and some other related stuff to make the client happy.so dealing is always exists in our daily life.let wee see some techniques and ways to deal with others.
Dealing with others means not try to rub our desires on them.we just try to explain our views and some nice scenarios what included in it.attracting people is not an easy to task but rejecting is very easy.in this competitive world every business or vendor try to keep the client to be happy.if we lose one customer , he may impact on future customer.
When you are start the dealings , your mind should in perfect condition like calm , peaceful mind , hopeful and enthusiasm .the final may be good or bad you must be looking forward only and take this as an positive feedback to build the new steps.please don’t expect the immediate results , it will hurts you if not gave good reply.so learn to have more patience.
As i said early , don’t rub your opinions and views on customers.they always feel themselves can give the best judgement and right decisions.so if you are crossing this limits , it not fruitful day to you.try to explore your thoughts and views to share and seeking the help or advice.making enemies is easy but not friends.so have a healthy talk and discussions.
Don’t argue with others , it won’t give best results rather than give best enemies.the product selling or marketing is not that much easy when we face rough customers . you need to understand the people’s mentalities to sell the plans or products in their way.always exchange the positions , like “if i am in his position , how would i feel ”.this practice always gives you best results and good friends.
Dealing with others is not shouting and forcing to do something.it must involves trust and belief in others.if shout you will get blood pressure or heart attack and best enemies.so be cool always and give the suggestions or advice in smooth way. people always attracts to loving and affectionate people.so mind that words and act accordingly.
no two people minds will same , so when we are dealing in a group have to take more attention on everybody and should deliver the opinions and suggestions.read books like “how win friends and influence people” by Dale Carnegie.An excellent i ever seen in my life and feel this was my best collection among all.i suggest you read this book and see the magic in your life.
finally , dealing with others is should give the positive results otherwise it may ends in negative way.when you are doing before that have a little bit preparation from online resources and some experienced candidate who are already in this area.here i want to tell a simple story about dealing with others.
Once there is a one steel factory in a city have 50 employees and one manager are working in a production department.there is rule like “everybody must wear the helmet because there is a chance to fall any steel rods or items on head , but some employees won’t do that one”Daily manager will come and shout at them to wear helmet.again they will neglect about his rude behaviour not even giving respecting him.the manger observed this and thought for a while take one action plan.
Very next day, he went to the employees who are not wearing helmet and asking like this . my dear friend what is your problem ? is this helmet causing you any inconvenience or trouble ? and he explains about what are problems if you don’t wear helmet.then everybody realized and start wearing helmet without any fail . everybody realized about how the manager behave with them.so always deal with others with smile and hopeful.
if our dreams remains dreams , then life turn into sad side.there is two ways of living 1.just living by oxygen or 2.Dream Driven . the decision is completely in your hands.the most and top barrier for dreams is impossible , the word commonly people feel about.the negative and “ i can’t ” attitude is worst and make you dreamless. if a scientist innovates something or created something , there is a invisible force drives him/her.there is a passion to find new things and wan to change this world how it looks.if you are keep on dreaming but not working on it , the result is quite simple as Time Waste and Broken.so time management and dream oriented working is highly important when you are on the path.without going in much discussion just do the simple step and follow according to that.
Before Doing the following Exercise , wants to tell a small story .One fine day after finishing the dinner i and my brother was going for a stroll.my brother was doing one business and earning some nice income with good life style.he started talking with some inspirational words and news , finally he gave one task to do at tonight. i agreed that and what was that ? . my brother said , take one white sheet and write down all your dreams and desire in your life which you want to get in upcoming years.so that question makes me more interested and think.i went to home just started as my brother says “ i wrote all my wishes and dreams with spending of half an hour time.finally whine i was reading just realized about “is nothing comes in my way which i am going now.” i consulted my brother in very next morning and asked what is the solution for this ? . he simply replied as follows.
paste all your dreams and wishes on wall before your sleeping bed which is visible to you when you woke up.say daily to yourself of “ I Can Do”.this makes you more energetic and dream driven.create your action plan and start working with passion.don’t try to keep your dreams as unrealistic and myths.it must be deserved by you.if you have goals with out any hard working , nothing will comes in your way. so without hardworking defining goals is a meaningless.in this case my favourite quotes is ” There is no substitute for hard work ”.if you observe any scientists or successful business man biographies , there you will know how they dreamt about their passions to change the world and want to create sensation.hard work never fails in anywhere.
if you see the software offices insides , there will have cubical boxes for employees to work on .Of course it might not be a comfort zone , so you must come out of the comfort zone to express your thoughts and ideas otherwise life will be miserable.if want to achieve something you must possess some skills which is needed in everybody life.so what next ? , come out of your way and take action plan about all dreams.if you set the goals without thinking of any limitations the world will be yours.then there is no chance to saying impossible .even failures teach a lesson so just admire that.once you created your path the sky is limit.finally , dream more , achieve more by work hard .
“ All Time Best Quote :” No Pain ,No Gain
Leadership is not at all a simple task to manage.there are so many issues are involved .The situations keeps on change, but leader admit that and fight with them.the difficult situation brings the new talent in leader about how he act upon it.the way you deal with situation is always reflects your strength and ability.leader is not at all just having followers but motivate them and lead them.leadership involves trust.positive attitude and self confidence are key players in leadership.follow the people who are already won in the way.hold their hands tight. learn from them.be a good student forever and ever.
Positive Attitude: positive attitude is important for a Leader ,he must believe himself .when the tough situations rises positive attitude shows answer.you can stay away from stress with good positive attitude.
Express Boldly:The leader must have his own opinions and managing capability.treat your followers with smile face.don’t show your angry or any negative emotions before them.it may hurts the future performance.
Be a Student Forever: A leader must be willing to learn always , and updates himself periodically.the latest technologies or marketing trends , any new qualifications must adds in his profile.he must be first competitor to all his followers.then only they can inspires from you.leadership need new talents.
Be Attentive: Be attentive on work ,don’t shift your focus on others.it may affects on work result.review the productivity whether it meets the requirements or not.have a analysing capability which makes productivity different and unique.listening capabilities are important to leader better than speaking.
Respect Others:Respect Others , it make good impression on yours.some people always shows their temper and feelings on others but it is not at all good.help others.teach your followers if they are not following properly.give rewards and appraisals.Leadership involves trust.
Attract Them:Attract the people with your posture and style of speaking.always inspire the people which able to work done efficiently.don’t go far.don’t show you are much knowledgeable.it may feel guilty them.don’t finger on their mistakes.make aware of them and let them try to learn from it.
When situations becomes tighter the team and organization looks on leader only.so you always be prepare for any situation.the creativity and sincerity always give work results.mistakes also good resources to learn but don’t repeat them. so this is why leadership is a not easy task to manage.know the summary of leadership qualities must everybody have, check this article.
To achieve success in any field you must have some skills even not mentioned anywhere.sometimes these skills will play a important role in your life.
- Observe the people who are already working on the same path.try to learn how they are achieved to come this position.
- Have good relationship with co - employees and officials.it may be helpful somewhere.
- don't say yes for everything ,it may give bad impact if you are not completed in on time.
- be prepared for the new challenges and keep on updating yourself with latest technologies and soft skills.
- Don't complain on others to higher officials , it shows negative impact on your behavioural profile.
- Don't feel shy to ask for doubts clarification and interest to learn new things.if you want to be a good leader you must possess a good listening skills.
- be on time for anything ,whether it is office , project completion , meetings or whatever it is be disciplined and time managed person.
- Following the company etiquette is compulsory rather than you work harder or smarter.the company first looks for your behavior.
These are the few skills are necessary to achieve the success in everybody's life.remember success is a journey not a destination.
To Start Your Day Very Beautiful Just Follow These Steps and Make Your Happiness 100 Times Better.
- wakeup on daily 5 o'Clock.the tie your shoes and go for some distance.Do your favourite excercise for some time then come back to home and have a bath.this will give some immense feel.
- Pray for Your favourite god sometime.keep your concentration completely and chant for some time.then you will come to know how happy you are.Read the news in online or papers.
- take your breakfast with feel good.dishes won't have any problem but it is totally depends upon how you feel to yourself.
- start your works early the next you feel comfortable when there is no any other disturbances and any other activities.
- keep your mobile in silent for some time and sit alone and think about what you want to do in future.the nature will gives the answer.silence create more power than noise.
- Listen some beautiful music or dance whatever you like,this will great feeling to your mind.this can creates more power and energetic.you can feel more confident than others.
- have a timetable and finish the works accordingly.if some task crosses the time don't worry,just have plan to go ahead.but never stops.
- Chat with your friends and attend some meetings do whatever you like where you can feel more comfortable and more inspirational.
- Then finish the works and go to bed early."Early To Bed.Early To Rise" is good habbit to health.Keep your mind relax and go deep sleep.
- then what next ,again your clock ticks on morning 5 o'Clock Just Do it, Again.Just make your time helpful then your happiness becomes much bigger.
- Everybody has only 24 hours,but in this time it is matter of how you utilized it.there is no good start or bad start,it is completely depends upon how you feel.just go through this then your life will become more beautiful.
Listening skills are necessary for who want to become a good leader or self-improvement.information must key part in the game. for this purpose you try to keep your mind to accept information.
Once there is a man called raju,he always fell himself as " i know everything",he will use to tell everybody's before them to make them feel guilty.His mind not willing to listen is anybody want to say something.then story goes like this.
one day a sage came to his village and giving his devotional speeches to people and everybody feel good about it.But raju want to test sage and went to ask teach something to him.sage founded his behaviour and want to teach lesson.
The very next day sage call raju and offered a tea to drink.then sage pouring the tea in raju's cup ,he continues pouring tea but raju didn't understand what he is doing.the cup is overflowing and and floats to towels and everything just got tea stains.then raju asked the sage , "sir what are you doing,you cannot fill it any more.then why are you doing this."
The Sage Replied then this what i want to tell you,"your mind thinking like i know everything",in this attitude you cannot learn anything.so be prepare your mind to ready to accept something.you cannot get the infomormation when the time is over.
So don't show your knowledge who cannot understand or unable, just try to teach them.if you show you are much knowledgeable they may feel guilty.don't show your conceit.so just empty your cups and go ahead.And Every person have some useful information which you don't know.you are not that much knowledgeable person .So everybody have their own and different talents,so don't make fun at them. Listening is one of the important qualities of a leader . Information is the key to reach heights and best knocks.
"Keep Your Mind Always Ready To Accept Information,
Don't Show Your Conceit,otherwise you cannot learn anything".
Inspired From Robin Sharma's "Leader Who Had No Title."
A Leader Who Want to lead a team or a group of people must have following qualities.these are some basic and important qualities of a leader.Quality Must meets the customer requirements. Leadership Involves Trust In Others.If You Don't Trust The Success Cannot Be Deserved.
- To Lead And Make Difficult Decisions.
- To Set The Strategy Of The Organization.
- Be Able To Communicate Effectively.
- To Be Able To Build A Good Team.
- To Promote Accountability.
- To Be Able To Delegate.
- Reward Good Performance And Deal With Non-Performance.
- Groom Your Successor.
- Have Good Listening Skills.
- To Pay Attention To Detail When Necessary.
- A Crisis Situation Offers An Opportunity To Leader To Show His Strength And His Qualities.
- No Leader Makes Right Decision Every Time,But Good Leader Not Afraid To Take Decision.
- Not Good For A Leader To Dwell On A Problem At Length And Not Make Timely Decision.
The Legend Backs To Infosys To Set Right The Instability happening in Infosys.The Team Management Believes Again His Strategic And Actioned Plan Thinking to setright the company strategy on good way.
we know the leadership lacking from past few years when murthy left the infosys.even though the banking monster K.V.Kamath won't show any influence on Software Industry.Investors , clients , employees losing the confidence in this the rocking performer backs to on screen.
Day by day operations are ruining , employees are losing confidence,investor and share markets are getting down ,in this horrible situation Mr.Narayana Murthy on Knife Edge .
Anyway the markets are already boost up by his coming up.he resigned in infosys as board of directors in past 7 years back.but the company have no any other alternative to pull out in this situation except murthy.
So board of directors form the meeting and decided to setback murthy upto 5 year long tem.in this time murthy will take a sinlge rupee as a salary.another glismping moment is his son rohan narayana murthy apposinted as his assistant and he also ask to pay the salary an amount of 1 rupee.The Retirement Rules Are Change In Infosys Fro 60 years to 75 years as it is convinience of Murthy.
I Didn't Expect This:
After Taking Responsibilities As A Executive Chairman He Talked With Press meet,he goes like this
1.i have divorced with infosys completely.
2.i didn't expected this in anytime will come back.
3.i have observed so many work to do after the retirement but now happens is different, K.V.Kamath Asked Me To Come back Infosys as A Chairman,I Just Shocked and Got Dilemma.
4.Absolutely this is second innings to me,this time my son rohan will support me as a executive assistant.i am very thankful to all.
5.Infosys 3.0 is what we planned ,but it is not individual it is company done.shibulal will lead this team.this has three strategic plans included.
- Giving Support To Clients And Keep Them Happy.
- increase the productivity,And services in regular basis.
- develop the huge applications and keep maintenance.
How Infosys Started:
Murthy And His six Co Engineers started the infosys with just 250$ in 1981 ,in this 30 years their hard work make this company is best company for outsourcing,and services section.the first company listed in america nasdaq.it's worth becomes nearly 40,000 crores organization.
Role In Infosys:
- 1981-2002 - CEO.
- 2002- 2006 - Chairman.
- 2006 - 2011 - Executive Chairman.
- 2011 - He Resigned.
- 2013- jun-1 - executive chairman (back to infosys.)
Inspiration Is A Key To Success.When You Think Going To Achieve Something,The Inspired Power Will Bring Back You To New Heights The Power Will Generates Within You to Achieve Something And Get Something.The World Become Easier and Support You To Get Something.The Inspiration Is Always Matters whether You Lose Or Win.
Every Game Must Be Some Information Gainers. Those Who Harness the Power Given By The World,They Can Achieve Anything.Get Inspiration From Famous Leaders,Long Speeches,Inspirational Talks.Be An Attentive Always,Be A Good Listener.The World Will Become yours.If You Plan To Get In Future Be Prepare For Today,And Have A Remember Everyday, Think About Itself,Be Inspired Always.Keep Clear Picture In This Mind.Say To Your Self "I Will Get It,I Will Get It." This Makes More Inspire To You And good Human Being In Success Always.
If You Want To Buy a New Car,First Get A New Image Of Itself And Paste to Your Front Of Window Which Is Easily Viewable When Woke Up,Every Day After You Woke Up Your Mind Will Concentrate On Good Posture And Try To Things In Favour Of Car Buying.And Believe Yourself In Huge Way,The Way You Get It.the Way You Believe The Way things Will Work Out For You.Finally And do The Action Plan.the Strategy and Work Will Lead You Finally To Achieve The Great Work To Emphasize The New Car.At End Of The Day The Car Will Appears Before On You.
"Nothing Is Magic In The World,The Total Depends Upon How You Believe And How You Act Upon You.first Believe Yourself, Then World Will Act In Your Way."
Life Is Mixed With Struggles,Happiness, Feelings, Emotions,Good , Bad,and Everything We Daily Seen On Our Life Styles. But Don't Afraid To Fail . The Good Person Always Admits the Mistakes.But He Can Learn From It.Those Who Do the Mistakes Can Gain More Knowledge Than Others,But He Never Do Again.the Mistakes Make You More Perfect,But Don't Have A Tag Like Mistake Man.Some People Always Feel About If Something Went Wrong,and Fear OF failure.So Don't Afraid To Fail.
Sometimes Failure Is Also Needed To Soften Your Career and Make More Brighter.The Main Aspect Is Failure Is Also Needed Some times.When You Are Failed Don't Try Hide Those Things Or Cover.Learn From Those Mistakes and Have A Nice Inspiration From Those Mistakes.Always Be Prepared For Next Challenge.And Never Make Same Mistakes Again And Again. So It Is Good to Fail.Of course You Are Not Failing Means,you Are Not Growing.
Mistakes Will Teach Us How To correct In Future,Success Teaches How To Go In correct Again And Again.So Both Are Good for Your Success.so Be Inspired Always,The Great Leader Always Admits Mistakes.Thus the Leadership Builds.Inspirations And Motivations Are Always Helps You In Good Way And Make You A Perfect Man Itself. So Now A Days Onwards Don't Afraid To fail.
- When We Want To Do Something , Or Something To Plan , Obviously We Pray For God To The Things Happen Good Way.But Putting The Total Responsibility On God Is A Foolish Thing. Do Your Work,And Then Wait For Results.God Must Be Help You.
- When We Are On The Way ,It May Be Mixed Up With The Difficulties And So Many Confusions,But It Doesn't Affect You Any More.Just Believe Your Self And Have Done Work Sincerely.Always Say To Yourself This "I Can Do This,I Can Do This...",This Makes You More Perfect Guy.
- The Energy Needed For Success Doesn't Comes From Anywhere,This Nature Gives You The Strength,And Motivate You Forward.
- Problems Are Just Like Clothes In Washing Machine, It Will Twist You,It Will Flip You,It Will Make You Uneasy But At The End You Will Come Out Very clear And New Look.
- EveryDay On Morning After Woke up Look Your Face Into The Mirror And Have A Small Smile On Your Face,See The Magic You Will Be More Handsome Or Beautiful Than Ever.This One Makes You Build more Confidence.
- Generally As A Human Mentality We Need Appreciation For Something We Do.f You Do Something In Alone,Just Praise For Yourself And Reward Yourself, Appreciation Doesn.t Comes From Anywhere It Comes Out From The Real Heart With Non contaminated.
- Enjoy The Every Moment In Life,The Commitment Always A Key To Get Something,You Must Sacrifice Something.Be Prepare For That.
- You Are The Owner Of Your Happiness,It Must Be Do Yourself Only.So Be Happy Always.If Something Going Wrong,Don't Feel,No Problem Sometimes Misktakes Are Happens,Just Admit The mistakes,Learn From The Mistakes.Take Care About Future Proceedings And Try To Avoid The Mistakes.
- Mistakes Make You More Perfect And It Makes You More Understandable And Future Player.If You Are Not Doing The Mistakes ,It Means You Are Not Finding New Ways.Thats It.
- Life Is Depends Upon The What Decisions You Take,And Beliefs. Believe Yourself Than Anything Else,According To The Magnetic Theory "The Opposite Polls Will Attract" ,But According To Human Theory "The Same Polls Will Attract".If You Believe Something,The World Prepare For Itself To Give Something what You Expected.